Is this Bullying among adults if not what do you call it then? The Wolf Family have been sitting around the dinner table the last few nights and wondering if they don't call this bullying among adults then what is it called.
First if we want our children to stop then adults need to stop.
Yes, I know its hard to believe but we all are different. Each and everyone one us of us are different in our way. Yea we might not drive the same car you do, but that is ok there are plenty out there to choose from. We might not eat the same kind of foods you do, but that is ok there are plenty out there to choose from. We might not go to the same school you go too, but that is ok there are plenty out there to choose from. We might not read the same books you do but that is ok there are plenty out there to choose from. We might not go to your same church but that is ok there is plenty to choose from.
Who are we to judge? I was always told we were never to judge people to give people a change. Hmmm that is not true in America for sure.
The Wolf Family had been traveling alot for Daddy's Wolf job we were lucky got to meet alot of wonderful people and some well we are still trying to figure out how they can judge people so hard.
Maybe we miss something I don't know. Like I said we been through alot of states and the State we find to be the hardest is the South Texas. Why? I don't know.
I will give you all a example. We moved to the South and made it our home. We homeschool the little Wolfs and decide it was time to join a homeschool group for the Wolfs girls to meet others and for Mama Wolf to find some support. Well I found support alright don't think it was good.
Every Friday morning we woke the Wolf Daughters up and told them time to start school then off to play group and play practice. Oldest Daughter didn't like acting so she usually brought a book to read while little Wolf went to play practice. Little Wolf is a great actor and loves to act. So, when we found this group we thought wow this is great. First of all I couldn't believe my eyes when I enter they looked at us like what, where did they come from. No one and I will say this again no one can and welcome us or introduce them self to us. I had to go around and introduce us to everyone. What? Am I miss something? Ok got over that hump. We stay the rest of the meeting then on the way home Oldest Wolf Daughter said Mama I don't really like the way the group treated us and how they all just kept looking at us. Well me the Mama Wolf trying to stick up for them and help the little Wolfs out said well they were just checking us out and it should be better the next time. We really wanted to stay as Baby Wolf wanted to move on with her acting career. So, we did give it several months try and as the months went on I couldn't believe how we were judge or bullying is what I called it because we weren't from the South, because we didn't go to there church, because now this is the one that gets us the most because Oldest Daughter Wolf read a Harry Potter book during play practice and it had magic in it. Well hello alot of people do. Anyway it hurt us so bad they bullied her told her she would go to Hell and all. Hello who are you to judge us? Why look there's another girl over there she is dress in Harry Potter stuff now why aren't you judging her. Oh her mom and dad has more money I see I got it and they go to your church. So, its ok if I went to your church and gave more money then my daughter could read Harry Potter. Hello no thats not how it works. Well we finish out the play as Baby Wolf liked it but was hurt the whole time how we were judge after that point. They were hard on Baby Wolf made it very hard for her to do the play.
If I have to say so my self she did a wonderful job and rock the show. Yea I am proud Mama Wolf but aren't we all proud of our little ones. Anyway after the play we decide we back off. The pain was just to much for the little Wolf's they were having trouble with it and it hurt them bad. Yes this happen a couple of years ago but they still talk about it. Do we see these people yes from time to time what do they do? Well most the time they act like they don't see us or they say oh hi and act so sweet. Well you know what we get up every morning and put our pants on the same way you all do. We don't go to your church, and I am glad now we don't if you treat people that way. You are not put on this earth to judge us. The little Wolf's ask to this day why are they that way? I still don't have a good answer for them? But, I do tell them to be them self, enjoy life and they can do anything there little minds want. Don't let people like them mess up there life. We all are different.
Why? Do adult's bully? I don't know. But, they kept saying its in the schools, yes it is but it has to stop with Adult's first. I don't understand why people do this. We all are humans put on this earth the same way and yea some of us do things different then others but that is what makes the world go around.
Yea, another thing that is so funny, they judge my Oldest Wolf Daughter for reading a Harry Potter book and you listen to some of those ladies pass and it will throw you off your seat. But, you see that is ok. No it's not, part of growing up is learning and making mistake can't they see they did it.
What would they do if someone would of judge them? I hope these ladies have a great life and once and while think what they are doing and saying and how they hurt others. It is bullying in my books.
We are adults we are here to help and lead our children in the right path. Yes, they will make mistake but didn't we all. We made it and some things we might not be proud of others we are. But, that is part of growing up and learning.
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