Bullying

I was sitting reading another blog today. Wouldn't say names or anything, but people think bullying is only in schools. It's not.

We need to stop it. What happen to the saying if you can't say nothing nice don't say anything at all.

It's really sad where some people think they are better than others.

Just remember we all were made differently and everyone does things differently. We all are not the same.

If you are so smart why do sit at home doing nothing living off everyone else making everyone work so you can stay home.

Just remember you are not God and you have no right to judge.


I feel sorry for you and your family. You think you are smart. The only think I see smart is your bullying on the net. If you have something to say then talk face to face not over the  net.

Melt Down!

I learn today you can't please everyone and don't try and I mean don't try.

The only people you should please is your family and the rest can fly a kite.   You can only do so much, if they don't like it oh well they don't understand.

Sometimes bending over backwards... giving up you time.. caring and be nice is just not enough for some people.

Some people just don't like the idea of others helping or doing the job they think they are the only one but can't do it and when others come to help have a  hard time letting the wall/gate down for the other one to come in..  

You see asking for help is not a bad thing.... its not a sign of weakness or anything its a sign saying please I just can't do it a little help is nice..

I am the type of person that gives my whole 100 percent to anyone and everyone I don't know why because I am the one who always ends up with the slap in the face.. 

I decided after today I was not going to say much to anyone anymore just answer question with easy answer like yes or no.. never giving more because you will be the one hurt..

When you go do your job just do it and nothing more even if it means you sit for hours till its time to clock out..

I have been slapped one to many times I am done with people and things I am a loner and will remain that way.

What happen to our music?

I am either getting older or music isn't what it use to be when I grew up?
I listen to country music alot and alot more with my job, as I travel alot up in the mountains and my radio is always going.

When I am listening to the music, they don't sound country they all sound the same...  What happen to the good old country music?

You use to be able to turn on the radio and knew the name of the singer right away by the sound of there voice. 

Now they all sound the same.. its hard to tell who is singing and none of them have a voice that is stand out all plain and simple..

Carrie Underwood can carry a good tune just wish she would go back to the old country music instead of pop...

Bring back the old country music put the pop some place else.

 

Nature!

Nature is so beautiful and fun to watch....

The other day we were going to our oldest college and the bald eagles flying along the river were so beautiful.. they fly so gracefully and are one very beautiful bird..

Then coming home from work last night the deers were out in force.. I wonder why or how they can go all over the road and never carry any kind of insurance on them. Hmmmm maybe that would be a good job for the White House to do next..  Make deer carry insurance if they want to be on the public roads.   Why not there is a law for everything else why not that?

Nature is so beautiful if you get the time go out and watch it..

Life is Busy!

Sorry about not being on here much anymore, but I am not on the computer much..

I started working it was suppose to be part-time ended up being full-time with tons of overtime.
You know the saying make hay while the sun shines and that is what I am trying to do.

With 2 wonderful girls in college its not cheap, college went way up in price. Can't believe what they get for one class now days and they are hardly in school.  Maybe I need to become a college teacher. LOL

Then found out today we will be  moving again..  So, hope this will be a better  move for us.  I don't like moving really I hate it but sometime you got to do what you got to do and keep going.

What Confucius did not say!

CONFUCIUS DID NOT SAY...

Man who wants pretty nurse, must be patient.

Passionate kiss, like spider web, leads to undoing of fly.

Lady who goes camping must beware of evil intent.

Man who leaps off cliff jumps to conclusion.

Man who eats many prunes get good run for money.

War does not determine who is right, it determines who is left. [so true ! ]

Man who drives like hell is bound to get there.

Man who stands on toilet is high on pot.

Man who live in glass house should change clothes in basement.

Finally CONFUCIUS DID SAY.....

"A lion will not cheat on his wife, but a Tiger Wood!"

Why can't I say NO!

Why can't I say no to anyone?

Is it hard for you all to say no?

I say no then and then they keep asking and I  feel so bad I say ok I will then I get so tired and run down.

Why can't people just take my answer the first time, when I say no they know I mean it and run along and let things be.

I guess I need to grow some back bone and be stronger and just put my foot down and say NO and NO means I can not do it and will not do it.
I am sorry but I need to be this way.

So sweet Doggie and little boy with Down Syndrome

http://youtu.be/JA8VJh0UJtg

Why can't people stop!

Why do people think its ok to bully others. It doesn't matter what age you are the bullying never stops.

Some people just don't know when enough is enough.  Or else they love drama.

Well you know if you like drama that is fine.  But, please find someone else to bully around and leave others alone when they ask to be left alone.

I just don't understand why some people can't grow up and give up bullying.

Yes, some like to act like they are king or queen all the time and they know everything but hey come on there are others who know alot too.


So, lets stop bully of all ages and grew up and be nice.

Didn't your mamma ever tell you if you have nothing nice to stay don't say anything at all.

Welcome 2013

You know the saying time flies and it sure does the older you get the faster it goes.

You can sit around doing nothing all day long and the time goes.

Enjoy every minute you have with your love ones.


We got some sad news already this year. My brother  in law passed away it was a shock and no one was ready for it.  R.I.P. Richard you will be missed by all who knew and loved ya.

We are hoping the rest of the year will be better for all.


Sometimes we have rocks in the middle of the road that need to move out and we move them  and go on.


Happy New Year to all my blogging friends and family..

So Beautiful!

Both my girls are so special to us. They mean the world to us.

This Christmas they made it so special for us.

My oldest made us this picture along with a wonderful poem to go with it..


So, sweet.  Thanks Sweetie we love ya tons.. keep up the good work.

We can't stand a day!

It seems like none of us can stand a day without a store being open.   So, so sad.. We all are so spoil.
When the store closes for holiday's we all get upset and just can't stand it.

I know when I was going to work on Christmas Day almost all the business on the street I went on were close the ones that were open there were lines of people out the door.

Wow, I wonder how we ever got along without a Wal mart open 24 hours a day 7 days a week.

I understand sometimes things come up we can't help it. But, man people give some people a break.

Yea, not all of us get the holidays off.. Nurses, doctors, EMT, Police, Fireman etc...  must work.. no date on the calendar or time on clock will let us off.  The world don't stop because its  a holiday no. 

But, we can give those who work at stores, restaurants and other place there time off with there love ones..


I hope all my blogging friends had a very Merry Christmas..

Happy Birthday Roo Roo!

Today 18 years ago I was laying in bed and letting history repeat itself once again.

Our little Roo Roo decide she wanted to come in this world early too. Even after taking all the steps to try and keep her from coming early she wasn't having that.

I was on bedrest through the whole pregnancy and took shots to help her lungs.

Little Roo Roo decide to come early and see us all. She came out screaming with coal black hair and big brown eyes.

Her daddy wouldn't put her down long enough for them to weigh her. 

We got to take our Little Roo Roo home with us for the holidays but she did have to return to the hospital for several days for health issue.

She is now a beautiful young lady with a heart so big and smile that would break any heart.

We love you Roo Roo you make our day and bring smiles to our face when we are down.
Thanks for being our daughter.

We love you deeper then ocean and wider then sky.  


Happy Birthday ROO ROO enjoy your day.

Windy.......

Just got walking the dogs and boy is it windy out there. 

                                   
                                      


If I was 20 pounds lighter and my name was Mary Poppins I could of flew to OZ Land.

                             


                                  


It was hard walking sometimes when the wind came head on you. But, I am big enough to hold my ground.

So, there will be no oz land for me today.

Pets!

Pets are family.. they  our some peoples kids.  

The girls and I were talking today how people just give them up and never look back.

When you go get a pet you have to think they can live alone time. They need to be taking care of and want attention.   Yes, somethings we get upset with them but hey we get up upset with humans too.

How can people just say I had enough and throw them outside along the road and like a piece of grass or old chair.

Pets, have feeling too.  They care and they are there for you when you down and when you are happy. 

So, next time you go to a store, look in a newspaper or on craigslist for that wonderful pet. Please, Oh Please think of the years you have with them. Trips to the Vet.. walks, toys, food they need. 
Think they can alive awhile and you shouldn't just because you don't want them drop them off someway and hope someone finds them.  They are so scared out there and lost. 

Would you do it to a human?  I hope not. So, please don't do it to a pet..

Changes!

Sometimes  changes are hard to go through....
Sometimes changes are easy...

Sometimes changes are scary....
Sometimes changes are happy....


We all have to go through changes once in awhile in our life.

Sometimes we don't want to as we are so use to everything the way it was.

But, in order to try or do different things we have to do that one thing and that is change. Even if its hard or uncomfortable.

We have to know we are doing it to help the family or our life.

When changes come into place you have to be strong.  Yes, you might not  thing you are strong enough to go through changes but you can do it.

Put a smile on that face and say you can.

Happy 20th Birthday Princess!

Wow where does the time go? Our little baby girl is already 20 years old. A young lady now.

I remember 20 years ago I was laying in the hospital bed crying my eyes out saying no she can't come now she is to early.  Well she and the doctor had  other plans and she came early.
Our little Princess was taken from us I didn't even get to see her and rushed to another room where they came and told us we need to minster and have her baptized as she wouldn't make it. I just cried and cried and said can I please see her.

They said sure but she is fighting hard.  I went in to see my little Princess the one I fought so hard too have years of trying, years of test, years of tears and months on bedrest all to be taken away. 

I put my hand in to hold her hand and she was fighting so hard to breath I started talking to her and said little princess mommy and daddy love you so much please fight we are here for you and will be the rest of our lives.

Well that little Princess fought alright and when we bought her home we were told she was going to have alot of health troubles and be small.

Well she showed all them wrong she is now a beautiful young lady, with no health issue and far from small. 

We love you sweet pea.. deeper then ocean, wider then sky. You bring a smile to our face everyday.  


Love ya tons and Happy Birthday our Princess!  From your mom and dad and little sister.

Winter Wonderland!

Today we packed the crew up and up the mountain we went to play in all the snow.

We had so much fun and all were tired and hungry when we got back in.

I forgot how much work it takes to walk through that deep of snow.

You are dress in a monkey suit and then you go plowing through the snow.

It was so much fun we had a blast throwing snowballs at each other and hiking away.

Now this is some soft landing  don't you think.

 Hold on tight I promise I wouldn't drop you

Over the river and through the woods to Granmothers House we go!  Oh no we
forgot the horse but we brought the dogs hope that will do. LOL

Cookies Cookies Cookies

Who don't like cookies especially when they are made by someone else.

My youngest decided today to make some homemade Peanut Butter Blossom. They turned out well for her first try.   Ymmm they are good.

Now off to eat some more.

Let it Snow! Let it Snow! Let it Snow!

Nothing like getting in the holiday sprints but good ole holiday music, lights and baking  while its snowing out.

Its so pretty watching it come down on the mountains. 

Sometimes the simplest things in life make a person happy.  Who said we need all those bells and whistle are crazy.

I know when our net goes down or we loose power for a day,  we are lost and don't know how we make it through life this long without a computer or those other fun toys.

But, you sure learn there is tons of things to do out there and there less stressful and relaxing.
I seem to get more work done too.